Hiya,
I have a baby boy with my ex.. he is 16 weeks. My ex partner left when he was 6 weeks saying that I wasn’t the same anymore and he couldn’t cope (basically I questioned why he was off to the pug AGAIN after the week before went out and never came home for the full night) MEN!
Anyways.... he has a daughter who is 11 and our son who is 16 weeks
He is living back with his mum, and she has said only one grand child is able to go over at a weekend as it’s too much having more than one there. Obviously this upset me as how is my son to see his dad when he lives there if it’s one grand child at a time! But I didn’t say anything as I hate the drama.
This weekend it is one of her grandsons turns to go over.... I asked my babies daddy if he would like to come to mine to bath baby and give him his night bottle and settle him to bed. He said he couldn’t tonight.. I have just found out that it’s because his daughter is staying over with him at his mums for the weekend. Obviously this hurt me, as he couldn’t have our boy!!
So I questioned him, to which he replied “I’m a spoilt brat and spit my dummy out when things don’t go my way.” And “I have a daughter not just our son”
I fully understand he has more than just our boy, but he has been going out for tea with his daughter through week, been having her stay over at weekends and he only sees our son every 2-3 days for a couple of hours.
Am I over reacting??
What do I do....?
He has said he will have him Sunday 12-4!! It feels like all of this is on his terms and he is dictating.. I don’t want to keep my boy from his daddy but I feel like I’m doing it all alone.
Thank you lovelies!! 💕
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Babymama2020 · 02/10/2020 21:53
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