Hi everyone, I've never posted here before, but reading through some of the posts I can see this is definitely the place to get some great advice.
Cutting a very long story short, I am due to start IVF soon, originally it was meant to be with my partner, but sadly at the 11th hour he felt he couldn't go through with it. Because I'm almost 42, I have decided to soldier on by myself and I am going to be using a sperm donor, which means I will be moving out on my own to raise the child by myself.
I live in London, have done for 19 years, and I'm originally from New Zealand, so I have no family here to help me. During my time in London I have lived in privately rented homes. I currently work as a nanny.
I'm trying to gather as much info and understanding as I can, to help me feel confident in my decision and I wanted some advice on benefits and housing. I have no experience with any of this, so I feel a bit overwhelmed and afraid as to whether I can live okay with government help.
I would really appreciate some help with the following:
How much would I receive per month in benefits as a single mother with a child?
If I did work, how much can I earn before the benefits are lowered or cut?
I assume I would qualify for housing, and I hope this doesn't offend anyone, but having had no experience with any of this, I am frightened about what sort of housing I would be put in. I want to feel comfortable and safe in my home. If I am offered a place and it doesn't feel right, and I turn it down, do I get pushed to the bottom of the list?
Do I have to pick something in the borough I live in, or am would I be shown properties in different boroughs too?
At what stage would I qualify moving into housing (if I qualify!), once baby is born, or when I would be pregnant?
Would all of my rent be covered?
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this! Any info or extra advice will be greatly appreciated!
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PixieB26 · 05/06/2020 13:56
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