I’ve just had to accept a court order for access to my children from their GPs. As a single parent I couldn’t afford to go to another hearing but I managed to get as little as possible. Their son, the children’s father is dead and we had been separated for a number of years when he died. He had addiction issues. His parents did everything they could to conceal it from whoever was involved with us even going to the extreme of lying about me. 2 false allegations of assault and the GM following us to school led to me getting a non molestation order against the GM. She had also been denigrating me to my son since he was 3 years old. I’ve managed to keep them away for over 2 years. The children didn’t get any provision made for them in their daily lives in the Will and in fact weren’t even mentioned in the Will. Their money has been put into trusts until they are 21. So we now have court ordered access and I don’t trust them at all. My barrister advised me they would get some access so I had to go in first and get as little as I could. They constantly dangle a carrot in front of the children about the amazing holidays they want to take them on. They also have £18k of the kids money left over from the estate that they will only give directly to the children and only if they take them out to buy it. I was free of this manipulation for a while and I loved it but I know they are now going to go to work on the kids. I haven’t allowed any overnights. What can I do to help the children through this? I just feel so bad that they are going to be exposed to them. They aren’t good role models at all and the whole family will lie to protect their own reputations and that includes the two paternal uncles. I just don’t know what I can do to protect them from this.
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SonEtLumiere ·
07/06/2020 10:42
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