My daughter is 8 and a half and it has always been just me and her. I left her dad when I was still pregnant and he has never bothered with her. My dad, her grandad is very very close to my daughter as is my mum and my brother and his wife. In 8 years I have stayed single to concentrate on being a mummy and also because I genuinely wasn't interested in finding a man.
I have recently just met a guy through a friend who is really lovely. He has kids himself and is very family orientated. My daughter has met him when we have been on dog walks together (she is always with me as I have no other childcare especially with covid), I've just said it's mummy's friend, she saw us holding hands the other day, when we got back to the car she burst into tears and said she doesn't want him to be her daddy and she doesn't want a daddy. I reassured her that he isn't going to a daddy, he's just my friend but I'd like to spend more time with him and reassured her I will always love her and she will always be my number 1. I havnt seen him since and I feel even when I mention his name she goes all clingy and emotional. Any help here is appreciated. This is the first person in 8 years I have feelings for and I feel I may have no option other than to end things with him so that my daughter is happy
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Elvie2 · 04/06/2020 16:57
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