My friend has a new boyfriend of three months. Things are going really well and they are already hoping the relationship has a future.
About four years ago my friends boyfriend broke up with a girl because she was cheating on him and because they had disagreements over money. They were about 22 at the time had been dating for three years but did not live together. He bought a house ( he is a very high earner) and she was unhappy because he did not offer her half the house and open an joint account so she could use his money because she had lost her job. She believed that people who are in a relationship should share their money fifty fifty ect. So he refused, she cheated and they broke up. A while after they broke up she sent him pictures of a six month old baby, said it was his and asked for money and told him she did not want to do a DNA test. She had started going out with the guy she cheated on him with but apparently they broke up. My friend said her boyfriend does not like confrontation so just started sending her money. He has met the kid three times. The woman now lives with another bloke.
My friend says her boyfriend has serious doubts that the child could belong to the guy she cheated with but thinks she might hassle him and cause him stress if he doesn't pay.
My friends says that if things get serious and they have a home together it will annoy her that money will have to be allocated for a child that may not be his every month.
The boyfriend has no plans to stop paying and while he has doubts he's not planning on doing anything about it. What do people think about the situation? Does this sound dodgy?
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Thehouseofmarvels · 25/05/2020 15:52
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