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dont date this nasty guy, another pirate rant!!!

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pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 16:47:18

HIya, as before, last thread, he couldnt make our date at weekend.

Me--pissed off. Told him so by text when he ignored me.

BUT, he rang, and we spoke on sunday, and got things straight. Spoke monday, he siad he'd taken the day off work today, and could he drve down to see me, we agreed to go for lunch.

Lots of texts yersterday, very nice, sopme very sweet. Online yesterday, both went to bed early, said see you tomorrw.

12 came, and went, 1 came, and went. no show.

I rang a friend and she and i spoke about it, so i just texted where was he??

no reply!!!

He knew today was a bit of a crap day for me, was really nice about it, (it would have been my 10 wedding anniversary)and said hey lets just enjoy oursleves, and i said, yes looking forward to meeting you.

I waited till 2, went online, and loa nd behold, he was actually online on the site we met on.

I feel like a bloody fool, but also angry, why someone would do this i do not know.

What WERE the last 2 weeks all about,and the last 2 days , I thought were cool.

pissed off pirate.

themildmanneredjanitor Wed 19-Sep-07 16:48:58

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charliecat Wed 19-Sep-07 17:01:43

OMFG what a complete DICKHEAD.
What the fuck was the point in that?
I would be angryangryangryangry

indiasmum Wed 19-Sep-07 17:01:56

sorry but he sounds like a twat. ignore him. you deserve better. my brother behaves like this with me. he doesnt have a girlfriend and i can understand why!

pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 17:02:32

deleted his number off phone, and his name off my msn earlier.

mean mean mean person.

lou33 Wed 19-Sep-07 17:02:52

where did you meet him and what is his screen name

charlie i have been shouting for you, come on msn

pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 17:09:01

on POF his screen name is nickplym1980,

i really dont want anything more to do with him , and won't contact him again.

I know this sounds ridiculous and laugh if u wish, but yesterday he sent me a pic he took of a seal, where he was working on a boat.!!!

It was just another of those little things where u think, oh he's kinda normal, he's open hearted sorta iyswim.

I am so upset but will not show it, today is a bad enuff day as it is. I even got my sister to have dd this evening, and he knows how hard it is to get a sitter. I just thoguth it would be great not to have to rush back to get her from school.

We have chatted loads, and it felt right to meet today.

lou33 Wed 19-Sep-07 17:12:11

i might message him and wind him up ....

pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 17:13:36

feel free, as long as it never gets back it had anything to do with me. grin

why would he do this??

charliecat Wed 19-Sep-07 17:14:11

Little prat. Look nice and normal too. What a complete dick.

lou33 Wed 19-Sep-07 17:17:55

oh dont ask me right now, i am of the opinion all men are co*ks, right now

pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 17:18:03

i've been holding it together all afternoon, but tbh feel like sobbing into a glass of wine, lamenting my pitiful (would have been wedding anniversary) been stood up day.


lou33 Wed 19-Sep-07 17:21:30

so what shall i say to him? we can get your own back

themildmanneredjanitor Wed 19-Sep-07 17:22:59

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pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 17:27:49

um, thats not too helpful, we all like differnt things, and at start he wasnt my 'normal' type, but i decided chat and has been great and he has a lovely smile.

I believe he's wearing beads not a chain.

Pinkchampagne Wed 19-Sep-07 17:29:01

He sounds like a complete arsehole.angry
Sorry you've been messed about, PG. Forget about him, and find yourself someone nice!

themildmanneredjanitor Wed 19-Sep-07 17:29:16

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pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 17:31:23

i just dont get people, who make lots of effort, then fuck u off.

i've prob been traded in for a younger model!!

Spineless bastard.

Pinkchampagne Wed 19-Sep-07 17:44:18

Did you actually get round to meeting him at all?

pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 17:47:42

he was meant to meet me today at 12. in my homw town. its only about half hr from him.

I think he's been

1. playing me

2. unstable

3. a normal spineless man

all of the above.

I've seen him on web cam ,and he's always been really down to earth, no funny business, quite normal.

hence my defences r down

Pinkchampagne Wed 19-Sep-07 17:49:51

Very strange bloke.hmm
Think I would give him a miss from now on.
Any other nice guys on this dating site?

Dior Wed 19-Sep-07 17:54:29

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lou33 Wed 19-Sep-07 18:06:33

alas there are a lot of men like that about

Dior Wed 19-Sep-07 18:08:12

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pirategirl Wed 19-Sep-07 18:13:29

hi lou, dior,

we both said, hey above anything lets be honest.

how the heck do you tell!! maybe I was just getting caught up in the nice feeling, not watching the warning signs, but I am such a pesimist soemtimes i thought don't let your hangups ruin this.

I wanna re do my profile, get a differen tpicture and fuck him over big time!!!

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