me and my dp have just gone our own ways. things havent been great for a while now and i couldnt keep fighting for something it was obvious he didnt want. he got very distant and i felt like a pet he had got bored of. he became very selfish too. the final straw was last saturday when i asked if he would take me to the cinema. his first reaction was yeah whatever. saturday night came and he made other plans for us to go to a friends for a few drinks. before i knew it we were there and i was being blanked as usual. then sunday i asked if he wanted to stay at home , not go football (shitty sunday league), and stay in bed with me. i was trying to make more effort in bedroom as that had become an issue. he said he couldnt. we had a huge row about how i felt unloved and that he never made any effort and before i knew it he had walked out the door. he has gone to stay at a mutual friend of ours but to make matters worse she hasnt text or phoned me since. this is my 3rd disastorous(sp?) relationship and it has left me with 3 dd's with 3 diff dad's. i feel such a failure. all i wanted was someone to love me and i feel that it has cost my children becasue i was selfish. it isnt like i havent been on my own before and only started this recent rlationship because i thought it could improve my happiness i was fine before. eventually i did get a bit down and now realise that i could be happier on my own.
i miss him terribly and although he is acting a bit bothered etc he isnt asking to come back and he seems to be just getting on with his life. he is finding somewhere to live today and it feels like the final curtain is being drawn on us. it hurts so bad.
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muma3 · 19/09/2007 12:04
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