Ok how do I do it, DH and me have debt between us and I don't earn enough to pay for even halve the household bills.
He says he will stay (on sofa) and pay the mortgauge for now. I want him to live ere for the sake of the kids, we are past arguing so its not like its bad for the kids.
But if I can't endure it how can we seperate financely? He talked about having to sell as he won't be able to afford anywhere, but I can't afford anywhere decent, I am not prepared to put them in a shitty flat and change schools etc.
I have been trying to get another job for so long that will support us, but the kids need to get to the activities they do after school and no childminder will be able to do that. If I do manage to get a full time job with a 5oclock finish MIL says she will help but I can't rely on here to be able to do it all the time and taxi them into activities.
Checked CSA and he would have to pay about £64 a week if we did it that way, would I get any benifits. Sorry I don't have a clue I have never claimed anything in my life apart from child benefit.
Tring to stop crying as I have a long awaited hair appointment this afternoon and can't go all red eyed.
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Skribble · 07/09/2007 12:58
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