I moved out of my home and left my abusive partner last feb and went into a refuge, I finally moved into a home for me and my two children in the October and i'm still struggling with being alone. I'm still in contact with my ex and when I don't have the kids (children are not his) I go to his house (he's not welcome in mine or around my children). I only see him as i'm lonely and do not love, trust or respect him. I need to learn to be stronger on my own and figure out how to manage the weekends the kids are with their dad. I need support and a handhold and don't want to be criticised, as I know I want out, but end up still in contact with him. I know there is a trauma bond there, I have counselling, I've done freedom, I watch youtube vids on narcs. I am honestly trying my hardest to cut him out for good and I think loneliness at weekends is part of the issue.
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fullofteandneedstopee · 21/02/2020 15:02
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