Hey.
I’m 22 weeks pregnant and my partner left me around 4 weeks ago. He says he still wants to be a part of the baby’s life but it’s me he doesn’t want. It came completely out of the blue and I’m just terrified of my future. I didn’t sign up to do this on my own.
I suffer with my mental health and am under a perinatal psychiatrist that I’m seeing next at the end of Feb.
I was always adamant I didn’t want children but he really did so when I got pregnant (unplanned) he reassured me we could do this and promised me he’d never been happier and I genuinely thought we’d be together forever. I’ve contemplated a termination but I just don’t think I could go through with it now I’ve become attached.
I work full time, unsociable hours and my home is included with my job (I run a pub) where I’m expected to work 48 hours a week including nights and weekends. I have no family close by as I moved just before I found out I was pregnant.
I guess I’m just scared and I don’t know how I’m going to do this. My career is probably going to be over as I can’t see a way of maintaining my job and childcare. My ex has already stated he would want the child on a weekend but why is this acceptable when my whole life will change?
He didn’t even come to the 20 week scan and whenever I’ve tried to talk I just get angry at the fact he left me. Any advice on what I do next?
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Jessicahlauren · 16/01/2020 00:57
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