Things are getting extremly hard between myself and ex partner, and my dd is being effected in a big way. We have been split up a year now and my dd's father is taking things ott now.
During the past yeah, hes made constant promises to my dd which have then been broken, such as saying he'l buy toys and come to see her and let us down....he has the most disgusting foul language infront of her, including asking her about my sexual experiences since we been split, and swearing.....he causes arguments and shouts,...hes left me in a large amount of debt,...hes broken in to my home and taken my belongings,...i could go on!!!!
To be honest i was hoping this would all stop now that hes getting married and has a new life, i thought he could see dd without the hassle. Hes never had dd alone or ever done anything for her and is uncapable. He seems to only want to see dd to hurt me.
Basically since dd turned three a few weeks ago its been a changing point. He came to see her on her bday wihtout a gift and said he forgot her card. I told him i was quite surprised that on the amount he earns he couldnt show with a pressie, and he knelt down to dd which he wouldlnt even normally do and said "your mothers fu*king f'in and bit&hin about your birthday present so i better go buy you one right now" Dd was so scared and didnt know what was going on. He then took us to argos and picked a present with her and before buying it, he said he didnt wana get anything so she cried her eyes out, as this isnt the first time hes done this.
I hope this doesnt sound petty as i know alot of single parents are going though a lot worse, but still my dd is being effected in a lot of ways and is so confused, shes seeing too much arguing etc and i want to know if this is enough to get everything put through solicitors and hopfully get him stoped from seeing her??? I never once thought i would want him to be stopped from seeing her as i felt its unfair on dd but i can only see things getting worse from here.
Its hard to complty explain everything without going on and on so hope nobday takes this in the wrong way, Any advise or infomation would be great ty.
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Prettyfull · 26/08/2007 22:55
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