Just wondering if anyone else experiences behaviour changes when LO comes back from their dads/other parent. My little girl, 2, comes back from her dads shattered, she goes every other weekend 1 night. Recently though it’s been getting worse and she’s not only tired but also pretty naughty. She came back from 2 nights at her dads over Xmas and was hitting, throwing things everywhere, was very withdrawn and just angry. I’ve spoken to her doctor about it as I had to go yesterday for another reason and she thinks it’s just anger that she doesn’t understand she can’t have mummy and daddy together. It’s been like this since she was a baby however so it’s been part of her routine for a long time. I’m just so fed up of it as whenever she comes back I have to give her a couple of days to seem to calm down and go back to normal again.
I try and be calm with her when she lashes out when she comes back and try and get her just to relax and wind down but the other day was awful, she also kept going off and hiding under the kitchen table.
I can’t speak to her dad about it as we don’t get along in the slightest!
Just wondering if anyone else deals with this and what their approach is?
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Emm980 · 28/12/2019 18:10
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