Baby Father passed before baby due

[Kloppkat31]

I don't know if I can post this, don't know anyone has been though this,I last ths baby father when I was pregnant and I was wondering if anyone has been though the same as me. I need to talk, I am struggling being a single thanks.

[Whatsthesmell]

I'm sorry for your loss, sorry I haven't been through it just seen your post and wanted to respond. I hope your ok

[Enterthewolves]

Me too - not within my experience but I am so sorry it is yours - much love.

[Kloppkat31]

It been hard not having around, I struggled ever day , I keep strong for my little one. Doing alright

[Kloppkat31]

Him

[Lily311]

My partner of 9 years died 7 years ago,I was pregnant with our daughter at that time. Most of it I blocked out,I believe that the pregnancy hormones protected me from the meltdown. The first 2 years were a blur, I had intensive therapy after that for 6 months which really helped me to process what has happened. It was incredibly hard and I felt I was robbed of the future I have always wanted.

But there is light at the end of the tunnel,time really helps. You will never get over it but will learn how to live after death.

[Dyrne]

I’m sorry for your loss.

Have you looked at charities that can support you?

Widowed and Young specialise in people who lose their partner at a young age, so may be able to help you with the specific challenges of raising a baby alone after a bereavement. Although they say “widows” they support people who have lost non-married partners as well. I have no experience of them but it might be worth taking a look?

www.widowedandyoung.org.uk/

[HoppingPavlova]

I’m so sorry, that’s tough beyond words.

Please prioritise your health, including emotional. Seek counselling and don’t be afraid to lean on whoever you need to or take advantage of any support services available.

Just an internet random but you are in my thoughts.

[Mary1935]

So sorry for your loss. I hope you have some real life support.

[Kloppkat31]

The baby father want away to work aboard but never come home. I speak him the day before he died saying he was take care of me and baby. I miss him so much I wish he was he with me and his son. His son missing out having a dad around. How do you tell your son when he older about he dad. I cry when I see dad with there kids playing. I have support from my family and help with services but it not a quick fix.

[Kloppkat31]

I just focused on the rest of my pregnancy until baby was born then when I get home it hit me in the face with no dad for my son.

[Kloppkat31]

The link doesn't work, for the window and young. Thank you all for commenting.

[Apileofballyhoo]

I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. What age is your baby now?

[MamaWeGotThis]

So sorry for your loss op

My partner died when I was pregnant with our child, it was so hard and it is when I look at her sometimes but at the same time the amount of strength she gives me is incredible

[Kloppkat31]

Thank you mamayougethis, when I look at son he like look his dad. I have to be strong for him.. I am getting help with this but I feel that dont understand, what we're go though and it good I can talk to people like you. I was 32 weeks when his dad passed. My 16 weeks tomorrow. Thank you all for commenting it nice talk people.

[Apileofballyhoo]

I hope you and your son will be very close and happy together.

[Kloppkat31]

Aplieo. Me and my son are very happy always smiles at me.

[Kloppkat31]

Lily311 did you get help after lose of your partner when pregnant or after baby born and how did you get though it. Have get support around you x

[Kloppkat31]

How do you deal with christmas and his brithday at the some time for me and his son