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feeling sad & teary today

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mojosmum Fri 17-Aug-07 18:01:41

dd has gone for her usual week to her grandparents & i just feel so lonely i had a crap driving lesson & just feel shit im going to a friends weding a week on sunday dont know anyone & am really not looking forward to it

i feel so shit shit shit today ive just spent the last 1/2 hr crying & i dont know why?

im such a mess

hoolagirl Fri 17-Aug-07 18:12:07

Can you reign in any male friend or relative to take to the wedding?
If not, just socialise like mad and if its crap leave after an hour or so, no-one will notice.
Put your feet up and enjoy the peace and quiet.

brightwell Fri 17-Aug-07 18:15:19

You're just having a bad day! Dry your eyes & run a bath and open a bottle of wine! As for the wedding, introduce yourself to people and explain you don't know anyone other than the bride/groom. The driving will get better!

allgonebellyup Fri 17-Aug-07 18:28:49

youre not alone, i am v low today, both my kids are away for the weekend, wont see them til monday, and all my friends seem to be too busy to see me this weekend.
plus i know my ex dh will be with my kiddies AND his new girlfriend

everyone i meet is a total bastard or i just do not fancy them.

so you are not on your own in feeling sad today.

mojosmum Fri 17-Aug-07 18:34:12

hoolagirl - cant get anman to come with me & couldnt leave early as we are all staying in the hotel for the night & her mother has paid for it as its to far to come home

thanks brightwell im sure everything will be ok it just doesnt seem like it today

allgonebellyup - id be greatful to have a date with anyone at all my only friend arround here moved away 6mnths ago we are still in contact but i cant just nip round for a brew

pirategirl Fri 17-Aug-07 18:39:46

, sorry you are feeling so down today, its only natural, if you've said by bye to your dd.

Do you know anyone you can call on, maybe go to the cinema, or go on your own. I did that and it was nice to have the peace!

The wedding, hmm, i guess you are nervous or anxious, yet if you put on a brave face, and doll yourself up, you might be quite proud that you did it?

You just needed to get your tears out today, i hope you might feel better after it. x

mojosmum Fri 17-Aug-07 18:46:25

thanks pirategirl i know we all have days like this but when your have one of these days you feel like your the only one & everyone elses life is perfect

CamperShoes Fri 17-Aug-07 19:47:50

Sometimes, it is the weddings you really don't want to go to that turn out the best. I'm going to one in three weeks, on my own for the very first time, and I don't even know the bride and groom! Hopefully, we will both have an absolute ball. If I were you, I'd go equipped - a brilliant book, a load of mags, a stash of decent chocolate and leave it all in the hotel room and if it does turn out to be too much - retreat.

By the way, Pirate's right, some days, you just have to go with it but hopefully by tomorrow morning, it will all seem easier.

mojosmum Sat 18-Aug-07 09:50:40

feeling alot better today thanks for all your kind & possitive words

mrsmcv Mon 20-Aug-07 11:01:00

How was the wedding mojosmum?

mojosmum Mon 20-Aug-07 15:49:24

hi its not til next sunday sorry i put on sunday not next sunday im a bit nearve but have booked myself in for a manicure pedicure eyebrow wax eyelash tint & spray tan so should look half desent

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