Hi, first time post!
My ex husband and I came to an agreement that he will have our daughter every other fortnight for the weekend when we split up two years ago. However, he keeps trying to bypass me entirely and make all access arrangements through our daughter (12) for example, if he is late to pick her up he will only text her to let her know and not inform me . I have asked him several times to make any arrangements through me (the adult) rather than use our daughter as a go between. He refuses to understand that she is just a child and messages don’t always get passed onto me and continues to do exactly as he wants. Am I being unreasonable in expecting him to communicate with me to make/change arrangements to see her and other plans? This has happened several times with various different things and despite me asking him several times he continues to communicate only through our daughter.
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MrsAjar17 · 23/10/2019 21:41
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