Been separated from stbexh from two years and am happy with that. Divorce is in process. I have an DD18 and DS16.
Dd has no contact at all with her father, her choice and that’s fine with me, she’s an adult and it’s up to her. DS sees him once a week max for a film and trip to Macdonalds. Again, at his age he can do what he wants. He doesn’t want to spend anymore time with him.
My issue is that stbexh lies to DS all the time. Little things and bigger lies too. He’s on holiday with his girlfriend but has told DS he’s on a business trip. Unfortunately my daughter has spotted him in a pic on social media ( friend of a friend had liked it - small world! )
His lies don’t affect me, nor my DD but my son is becoming increasingly upset about being lied to, he’s becoming withdrawn and angry at times, which ends up directed at me ( just words nothing physical).
What’s the best way to deal with this? I hate seeing him hurt but he does still want to see his dad. He won’t stay with him or anything though, and ex can’t really see the damage he’s doing.
I know my sons relationship with his dad is his business, but it’s painful to watch.
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Juststopit · 08/10/2019 22:57
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