Hi, my dh and I split ten months ago leaving me with our sons now 11mths and 3.5 yrs. We remain amicable and have always discussed the chidren. He has just moved closer to us to see more of the boys but throughout he has had our eldest ds to stay. But, and here in lies my question, the eldest has suddenly decided he does't want to stay at Daddy's any more but does want to see him in the day. We had both noticed a change in behaviour after a visit and he kept waking at both houses screaming to go home and where's mummy. He hasn't stayed there for a couple of weeks and is now objecting to his younger brother going as well. Not sure where to go from here as obviously want what is best for boys but also want a break occasionally. And what is best, making him stay at Daddy's or letting him just visit in the day? Any advice much appreciated.
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