Hello. I left my husband 4 years ago. Our child lives with me and stays with him 2 weekends out of 3.
He works eratic hours but has a new partner and wants 50/50 residency.
We went to mediation and im so angry with myself because i agreed as I felt worn down. He kept telling me this is what our child wants. And i have no real reason to disagree other than i think it will be disruptive. I gave up in the mediation and was apathetic. As he wasn't listening to my point. I also have changed my work hours so i can collect our child from school on 3 days but he discounted that. He wants 7 days rotating.
He was controlling and emotionally abusive towards me in our relationship. But I feel it's ok for him to see her as much as he does so why not 50/50.
But I'm panicking. He used to tell me he'd turn her against me. Although that was before we split up. But now i think he's got 50/50 he might do it.
I'm really angry with myself. I was trying to think what's best for our child not me. But i don't know if it's for the best or if it's just my fear making me feel it's a bad idea.
We agreed a 50/50 trial but can i say at the end no. Sorry for the long rant.
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motheroreily · 27/04/2019 13:45
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