Ive recently downloaded timder. Ive been very fussy and narrowed 2000 likes to 10 matches and the one guy i was most excited about hasnt answered, hes not the best looking out my matches probably second to last really but i want him to reply just because of his job and pictures just seemed interesting/compatible! Should i double message... I sent him how are you? You have a really interesting job and two emojis of his job. Why dont people just unmatch if not interested like i do. I dont want to sound desprate but then again i dont want to unmatch and regret. Honestly i dont care if the others dont reply/dont message me at all. This is the only guy i messaged first. I did wait 2 days after matching. I hate this. Being 21 and single was so much easier.