Had parents evening today, dd sat and behaved in the library whilst we went in. All good news, achieving in most, excelling in some and needs to work on a couple (catching a ball being one of them, so Im not too worried!). The MOST amazing thing was the round-up at the end when teacher said she was really pleased how dd has come on this year, she has become more confident, out-going, making more friends and its particularly noticable since Christmas ...
and what happened at Christmas? ... We split up and Dh moved out!!!
I really believe that kids are far more perceptive than we give them credit for and more than they probably understand. Dh and I were not arguing, any "words" were when she was asleep - there was a lot of tension however, and she must have picked up on that.
I was away the weekend dh told her he was moving out (a decision we made together) and when I came back and he told me how it went, he said it was like a visible weight lifted of her shoulders and she actually said to him that we would both be a lot happier. I thought Christmas would be a difficult time for him to leave but it was just before school broke up and over Christmas, dd got used to being in Daddys new house and back home with Mummy so by the time school started again, she was used to change. Its just been amazing to see how well she has coped and to hear that recognised and confimed by her teacher is such a relief. Big kisses and hugs to dd. xx
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aimeesmummy · 27/06/2007 22:05
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