Last year ex saw dd Christmas Day morning at my families home, he watched her open her presents and then went off to do his own thing. He took her out for a bit Boxing Day.
He says Christmas is up to me, he doesn’t want to alternate but wants to see dd. Thing is I’m planning Christmas morning in my own home with dd and have been thinking for my partner to be here, he’s moving in after Christmas and we’re expecting a baby together. No way ex and bf can be together, ex really won’t like idea of bf seeing dd Xmas morning when he’s not, don’t think bf will be keen on ex being here but I know he’ll deal with it for dds sake.
Wondering if I tell him he can come early morning see her open gifts and then go and my bf can join us before we go to my mums. But make it clear this is this last time and from next year we need a fair plan. But what’s fair?
I don’t want dd missing her siblings first Christmas (next year). Think she’d feel pushed out. Honestly though hate the thought of her missing Xmas with me ever
Is it fair to say dd is with my Christmas Eve and for Christmas dinner and he can collect after dinner and have Christmas night and Boxing Day? But do that every year?
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ThePeachPit · 05/12/2018 19:24
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