I already have a son and I am currently 5 months pregnant with my second. Both with my now ex boyfriend.
Ex just isn’t interested in our son since we e split, told me he wants nothing to do with him, or this baby. Saying he doesn’t believe they’re both his (they are 100%) and is being down right disgusting towards me.
When I met my ex, he already had a son from a previous relationship. We were together 3 years before we had our first child together.. ex told me how he had to fight to see his son. Through the courts as his mum stopped contact for no reason, refused access etc. Was messy and horrible.
Now I’ve never once said he can’t see our son, I’ve got messages off him telling me he doesn’t want to see our son . I’ve tried over a period of 3 month(since we split) and he just isn’t interested.,
It is breaking my heart when our son asks for his daddy., and knowing he’s still seeing his other son., I just don’t understand why he won’t have a relationship with him?
I am really struggling with being pregnant. I had basically just found out I was pregnant for a month then he kicked me out of the house, left me homeless with our son whilst pregnant.
I just feel so worthless and it’s so hard with my son crying for his daddy.
Ex is now saying he’s blocked my number and is moving so I can’t trace him to ‘get money out of him’ I’ve never once asked for money, only thing I’ve asied is him to have contact with our son.
I’ve accepted this isn’t going to happen as nothing’s changed despite months going by..
I just feel so helpless and can’t understand why he’s acting like our son doesn’t exist ☹️☹️
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Lostandlonel · 23/09/2018 23:12
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