My ex agreed after 4 months of arguing, to take the kids eow. I pushed for weekends as they need routine during the week. \r\n\r\nIt's now summer holidays. What does everyone do at holiday time? Does routine now apply during the week of holidays? He is refusing mediation, kids are pining for him but he won't give any other days?\r\n\r\nThis is a private agreement with no court order in place.