I've been on my own since my oldest was two years old, for 10+ years — no dating of any kind whatsoever, and my kids and I are like the three musketeers, real close. As time has gone on, I've found happiness in being single, and for the kids, this three-person family is really all they know.
So... I met someone. He's a work colleague who started out as a friend and my kids have already met him in that capacity. We're taking things slow, real slow, and I'm enjoying it but... it's kind of messing with my head. I've read other "dating as a single mum" posts on MN including those from mums with small kids who asked themselves if they should wait until the kids are older. I'm thinking that just might be more complicated! We're very set in our ways as a family and now the thought of allowing a new person into our private space if you like is just a bit daunting. I feel guilty as well, changing the family landscape at this stage.
If this post sounds confused, it's 'cause I am.
Does anyone have any experience with a similar situation?
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IttyBittyKitty · 24/06/2018 12:30
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