This is going to be hard to write and I'm expecting all sorts of judgement but if that accompanied with help then it's more than welcome.
Ds1 is 11, I have two other pre school children and I'm not coping. After a horrible separation from their father I am lost and my poor ds1 is getting a crap deal because of this.
I am struggling to keep with with everything, from housework to looking after the babies. I am too reliant on ds1, I force him to help me clean the house or look after the babies whilst I do so. He makes bottles when I'm changing them, changes them whilst I'm tidying, entertains them whilst I cook etc.
I'm treating him like he's the co parent and I get frustrated with him too easily and have started becoming a parent I don't recognise.
I need some help stopping this behaviour, I'm in no way physically abusive but I feel I may be deemed emotionally abusive. I'm not sure. But I want to change and need some help.
I've been to the doctors and have been referred for an ADHD consultation and an anxiety assessment but this is a very slow process.
Can someone offer any advice? He is such a wonderful child and I'm taking advantage of this.
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lostparent99 · 22/04/2018 18:39
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