Hi, I've posted similar before in legal but I'm interested in opinion/could do with a bit of support....
DD Dad told me 6mths ago he wanted nothing more to do with us, didn't want to know addresses, holidays... nothing. She's 2. He is EA controlling, manipulative and inconsistent. We split 18mths ago and he refused to look after DD without me being there on the odd occasions he saw her and was very upset when he was near.
So after I'd got my head round things I've started to make plans to move nearer to family as my parents are moving to look after an elderly relative. I rely on them for childcare so I can work and my DD adores them. Our life will be much better and I'll have support. I currently like barricading doors at night as I worry EXP will break in or do sth silly.
Anyway.... went to look at houses- moving 3:30hrs away and he messages threatening me with turning up on my doorstep as he now wants to see DD after nearly 7mths. I said I'd sort a contact centre on return. I've in theory sorted the info but not told him yet and i still want to move and he will go barmy! What do I do... stay and struggle or move and face his wrath! I was going to offer once a month contact and FaceTime in between is that unreasonable? DD doesn't know who he is really! But she's entitled to try and build a relationship. I don't want him coming up to see us- I want a fresh start without being frightened as it's not good for me or DD. WWYD? AIBU?
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cremeeggs38 · 17/04/2018 09:45
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