Really need a rant.
My ex has drifted in out of daughter's life for 12 years. He has had two more children with 2 other women after me. I have had a handful of CMS payments in those 12 years, but I am self sufficient have a good job and able to provide for my daughter. He hasn't seen her in two years now after refusing to bring her home from a visit, and obstructing her going to school whilst he held on to her. I haven't deemed him trustworthy enough since then, I've told him supervised contact would be the only way but he has refused this.
Recently, a school trip came up that my daughter wanted to go on and as his partner also has a child at the school he knew about it and offered to pay for my daughter to go on the trip. £400 trip to be paid in instalments between now and May. I nearly fell off my chair to be honest, and he made the first payment. I may have had to say no to this trip had it been just me paying as I have just booked a holiday abroad before knowing about the trip which has ultimately spent me out. The next payment is now due.
He has now decided he does not want to part of a capitalist society any longer, he has quit his job, he has sold worthy possessions, left his current partner and is going to go and find himself in Peru.
This may sound like a joke, and to be honest, its a laugh or cry situation, but I've now got a £400 school trip to pay for, along with everything else, just ARRRRRRRGGGGHHHHH!
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user1473756940 · 27/03/2018 09:34
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