Hi
DS is 14 and at some point will be looking for a small job.
He currently see's his Dad every other weekend. The hours are very variable as his Dad works in retail so regularly works Saturdays, but generally it's either Saturday morning or Saturday evening pick up, until Sunday afternoon.
There is no pattern to his working, so we can't predict which weekends DS is here for the whole Saturday. Hope this is making sense!
Ex also lives 50 miles away so there's no opportunity for DS to go, then nip to work, then go back to his Dads
Ex is generally not flexible, at all. For instance he wouldn't visit DS extra in the week if weekend contact was cut back. Even on his days off. It's always been this way. Contact is EOW only.
Ex pays the absolute bare minimum maintenance, which is a pittance.
I get that contact is very important, however we need to move forward with this, I just don't know how!
Would I be unreasonable to say to Ex that if he refuses to compromise at all that I would request he supports DS with pocket money? There is no way on earth that the maintenance could cover this. In Ex's opinion, it's up to me to provide everything for DS, always has been that way.
Those of you with teens, how have you managed it when it comes to getting weekend work?
Thanks!
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stressedoutfred · 18/03/2018 13:32
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