Hi ladies,
I'm having a bit of a problem, and I heard that this is the best place for advice, so here goes... I met a guy on POF and we met a few times.. I didn't sleep with him right away but when I finally did we were still getting on great.. Then one night he was to meet me for a meal, stood me up and blocked me on WhatsApp. Long story short I found out the other day that I am 3 weeks pregnant.... I tried to tell him and got ignored, so my friend stepped in, at this point I'd already decided to book in for a termination as I didn't want to do this alone.. 😢 he's contacted me since and begged me to keep the baby even promising to be there for every appointment and wants to be a father figure to my other children... However when I mentioned he would be more interested in the baby and my kids more than me, his response was "you're right but maybe we could still be friends" I'm such a mess I don't know what I did wrong and now I'm carrying his child and I'm never one to believe in abortion, typing the word alone makes me want to cry, I just don't know what to do.. He still hasn't explained why he ghosted me and now he wants to visit Sunday and its mainly to see my girl who asks for him a lot as they created a bond. My head and heart is a mess, I'm sorry for the long post or if I have offended anyone I just need some advice.
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Treacle86 · 02/02/2018 22:50
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