Hi
I am wondering if anyone has any experience of this?
I obtained a Passport for my son just before he was 1. He will be 4 later this year. His name was changed by Deed Poll a year ago without the consent of his Dad. This is because he has not been in his life now for over 2 years. He doesn't even attempt to see him or contact him!
Raising my son with my surname made the only sense to me, as my family is the only family he is around. His Deed Poll has been accepted everywhere and he is now using my surname which we are all happy with including my son.
His passport has obviously been issued in his Birth Name. When it comes to changing his name on his passport will the Deed Poll document be enough? I have been told about court orders etc but also been told by a Solicitor not to bother as it will bring him back into our lives, which for both our sakes I do not want this to happen.
To give you some background, my son was unwanted by his father. He saw him as an accessory rather than a responsibility. For the first 9 months he was around but did nothing not so much as a pack of nappies or milk. He was abusive and regularly told me i'd made my bed and took great pleasure in watching me struggle at being a new mom and our abusive relationship. At 9 months old I couldn't take any more. For my own health and the wellbeing of my son we separated, in with he didn;t contact my son until he was 13 months old. He then returned sparsely, constantly not showing and letting my son down, and at 18 months old he text me to say his girlfriend was moving back home to the UK and this is where he drew the line. I asked what he meant and he said he chose her. I remember saying, remember what you have just said to me , and I never heard from him again. He pays maintenance, but refused to, so this is being paid via his employer. And the reason for me taking this action is because he left me and my son in a substantial sum of debt which will take me 6 years to repay at 300 a month. So please do not judge me for this. The maintenance covers a third of the debt payment so I struggle every month.
Anyway...Has anybody had any experience of changing their child's surname on a passport without the other parents consent?
Thanks in advance
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NJW86 · 30/01/2018 10:15
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