My ex text me today asking if the kids had anything nice to wear for a christening tomorrow. I told him they only really have leggings and tops mostly (what they like to wear) and afew dressey dresses but no shoes to match. He said can I put them in a bag he will buy shoes etc. I said I will speak to the kids and go from there.
Anyway all 3 kids are different, I asked them what they would like to wear only because I want them to feel comfortable. 1 picked a dressey dress something that you would wear to a wedding or special party. 1 picked a causal outfit skirt top and Cardi and 1 picked her usual top and leggins.
When he came for them he asked what they had so told him, pulled his face and said to them your going to a christening your ment to dress smart.
I was so hurt by what he said, in a way I felt like shit for not making them were something more dressy or shit for not having the money to buy them something nicer. Then I felt shit for them coz he said that to them.
For a while now iv told him he should be providing clothes for his house as it's easier for all but he never has and they stay in their 1 outfit they go in all weekend.
But for a do like this if I don't have something I shouldn't be made to. Feel like shit when I didn't even know till today.
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Louw12345 · 12/01/2018 16:43
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