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mpeters82 Fri 05-Jan-18 23:22:02

Hi,

Apparently my son said he don't want to see his dad. Messed about each weekend.

My ex said he upset but it's our son choice. But not talking to him trying to find why.
If it's once a month fine on a sunday. Oh he brings his girlfriend each time. No time with my son alone.
I love my son get no break.

He may aswell just not bother at all.

I am getting at thought of not knowing about sunday. If he coming feel like saying I went away. Don't me your son about. My son 10 messing us around.

I never get my time and just feel why should he.
Just angry and fed up. Contact issues making me crazy
Family saying do this and that.
I can't work as struggling childcare or availablity.
Sunday he calls my son can talk to his dad. His will have to come up to us to get him. He got it easy. If son don't go then it's ok.
Just want either him to step up or off.

Sorry for the rant

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mpeters82 Fri 05-Jan-18 23:23:27

Step up or get lost

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mpeters82 Fri 05-Jan-18 23:26:46

I'm upset for son and angry at my ex. Just don't think I be available sunday. He have to call my son set arrangments. Stick to it regardless.

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NorthernSpirit Fri 05-Jan-18 23:37:23

You keep posting the same posts on various threads. You get the same advice.

Your son is 10 years old. Too young to be deciding if he wants contact. You need to be the adult along with your EX and devise a contact order that you both stick to. It’s not upto a 10 year old child to make adult decisions over contact.

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