It was my idea to get alternate Christmases written into the court order (ex previously dicked around with last minute changes, stressing us out, letting DC down, keeping DC for longer than we agreed)
That doesn't make it any easier saying goodbye and knowing I won't see them until 27th.
I knew it was coming, and my lovely DP and I are spending Christmas day and boxing day in a spa hotel to try and take my mind off it. I have arranged a 2nd Christmas day on the 29th Dec for when DC gets back.
But I keep intermittently bursting into tears. It's unusual for me. I am not that big into Christmas usually. I have been without DC for a week at a time before (over summer hols) and never been emotional about it.
I think I am anxious as well because last year the ex ended up keeping DC (against my wishes and our previous agreement) for 9 days (should have been 7). The memories have come flooding back and I just feel so teary.
So...any tips on keeping the tears at bay? I am going to lunch today with my DP's family. They will prob mention my DC. I do not want to burst into tears at the table.
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dondleoffice · 21/12/2017 10:27
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