Hi everyone
I know this is a bit of a silly post in a way and before I say anything else I will always put my DC first and enable a good relationship with both me and my STBX. I know that is best for them and their right.
I am really struggling though for myself with the fact that I will no longer see them every morning/be with them full time. My STBX decided he wanted to separate following an EA. He has spent the last 8 years following his dream and has done that 7 days a week with 2 weeks off a year. He has been away for at least a 1/3 of the year. Even now I am the one who takes all responsibility for getting home for handover for the kids etc despite being the higher earner. I wanted more than anything to have an equal partner/parent but he never considers his family before himself.
When we separate he wants at least 60/40 with the kids. I want them to have a good relationship and see him. But I’m finding it just so very hard to come to terms with, I can handle everything else but I feel like this is just so cruel. Does it get better?
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Ilovecrumpets · 20/12/2017 07:28
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