I'm 16 weeks pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby and he is completely infuriated that I'm keeping it, wants nothing to do with the child etc. I never once forced him to be involved with the pregnancy I haven't tried to change his mind or anything like that
The other day he wished me luck with the pregnancy and I thought that was the end of it. I planned on no more contact. But sadly, I then got a barrage of abusive messages off him (he hates me, hates the baby and wishes it was dead, I've ruined his life, that his mum said I'd try and trap him, that I'm abusive, that I'm ruining the child's life etc etc etc) I just muted the chat and let him carry on with it thinking he'd calm down as I know he finds it difficult to deal with his emotions. I thought he was just venting and he'd leave it alone after.
HOWEVER. It also transpires that he's been saying some awful things about me behind my back. Telling people I've tried to trap him in a relationship, telling people that I was abusive when we were together and all kinds of other awful things. And this does not sit well with me at all as it's simply not true. I messaged him and requested we meet up,talk about this like adults and leave this on neutral terms. Drama and this horrible toxic situation is not good for ANYONE. His response? More abusive messages, told me to fuck off and had proceeded to tarnish my name to all of our mutual friends and all over social media. I am Fucking mortified. I have no idea how to deal with this situation.
What I WANT to do is have it out with him in person but I know that would be absolutely the worst thing I could do, if I leave it, it's going to keep escalating into this awful Jeremy Kyle situation where everyone knows my business and potentially thinks I'm this awful bitch he's making me out to be. I just don't know what to do.
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dazedandconfuse · 27/10/2017 12:00
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