Will keep this brief as my previous posts have covered in more detail.
My 14 year old daughter (Asperger's, chronic fatigue and eating disorder) moved in with her dad a year and a half ago. This august she said she wanted to move back with me.
Ex agreed and set a date for this weekend. However, he has lied to her about me, shaking her trust in me and wrecking our relationship. I'm 100% sure this was deliberate. He knew he couldn't legally stop her moving so did his best to turn her against me so she would refuse to come.
I have reported him to social services as I do have fears for her welfare (as do health professionals working with her). SS are investigating but initially didn't want to as they viewed it as tit for tat, as he has made allegations about me in the past. He was and still is abusive.
SS contacted him yesterday.
Today my daughter has blocked me on social media (the only way she likes to communicate) and I emailed him to ask him to confirm he is still bringing her this weekend but he is not responding.
By deleting me, she has also deleted our messages, which were my evidence that he is telling her I'm lying to her (I'm not).
I don't know what to do. They have both totally cut me off. I am on income support so have no money for solicitor or court case. Also, if I blow my overdraft on a court case, I understand they will listen to her wishes as she's 14, which seem to be that she wants no contact with me (because he's manipulating her), so it would be a waste of my time and money.
She is desperately ill, on the verge of being hospitalised. I am so worried about her and so angry at what he's done, but feel totally helpless
What can I do? I'm devastated.
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MavisDavis99 · 27/09/2017 16:17
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