Me and my exh are 18 months in a split. He doesn't have contact with me. We share custody 60/40 (60 with me). I have found the holidays very hard and it has bought me very down.
I barely have contact when te children are with him. If I ring the children do not always want to speak to me as it causes upset or he doesn't not answer the phone.
My kids are 6 and nearly 9. I am their mum and can't just switch that off for 40% of the time. I don't know where they are, when they're hurt, if they're poorly or upset. It's like I have no rights anymore. They go on U.K. Holidays and I know nothing until by chance I speak to them. My exh sees it that when they are with him I have no right to know anything.
Is this right? Do s anyone have any experience of this please?
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Tingatingatale · 07/09/2017 21:36
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