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Exs gf told my child we have sorted out issues out

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Louw12345 · 03/05/2017 15:15

So my ex gf likes to poke her nose in. She has grabbed one of my children by the arm, shouted at me down the phone regarding my daughter and Told me no cm is getting paid ( which it hasn't since September ).

Then this, so me and my eldest (14) went shopping we had a lovely day and she asked about starting the gym. I said I can't afford to pay it all so if your dad would like to go half's I will do that she said she will ask him. She carried on to say, ...... said to me the other day that you and her have sorted your issuses out and are friends again. My daughters reply to her was I didn't know you and my mum any issues. (No that's because my daughter didn't need to know).
I explained to my daughter that there has been afew issues and not worry about it as it's adult stuff.

I was really annoyed by it, really why would you say that to a child?
I'm alittle worried to what else is being said. I never told my children as I would never want them to feel uncomfortable etc. My daughter didn't want to go back to her dad's that night, she walked there but went to meet her m8 instead and came home.

Is this woman trying to push my kids out of their dad's life?

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Starlight2345 · 04/05/2017 13:33

I think the conversation is difficult as it is a snap shot of a conversation no idea in what context it was said.

Why is no CM been paid? I would go the the CMS even if this pays for gym membership it would help.

You don't mention in your post how Dad is been.

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Louw12345 · 04/05/2017 13:50

It was said in the way of oh me and your mum have sorted our issues out and ate friends again now. Nothing about me was mentioned b4 or after that.
There was no reason to say it in my eyes.

Im going through CMS he missed the first monthly payment through them in April so they have put it on collect and pay, he's self employed so they said won't be able to take directly from his wage.

He's just him I suppose doeant turn up doesn't communicate regrading the kids
However we have been able to communicate in the past
He said he will go half's with the gym