My ex decided to leave when i was 4 months along. Have been getting awgul messages from his mother. Picture messages look at what we have for baby when she comes over. Her dad stated aslong as she has everything she needs for his house he doesnt care what i need. (So i took this message from his mother to heart felt like they were rubbing it in that they could afford more for LO than i).
However how kften should i let my baby visit her dad? I know its important for her to have the bond with her father although i feel he is not concerned. (Ive been recieving messages from a number which i dont know hoping baby dies, saying im a rubbish mother, saying her dad will take her from me). Im worried that it ends up gping through court.
Im worried that i finally expet that hes gone get on with my life and do whats best for my children then he comes crawling back making demands.
He and his mother said as he works ive to work around his schedule, which would mean he wants her every weekend.
I already have a son who is 5 at school mon-fri, i feel its important for me my son and daughtet to be able to do things as a family at weekends also. They feel the bind between father and daughter is more important than brother and sister.
Ive previously pisted before, i just feel very worried about alot. I still have 15 weeks left in my pregnancy an terrified for my date to come.
My babya dads father is saying they wabt a DNA test, i think im more worried that everything is going to get more stressfull.
On many occassions ive replied to his mother please dont contact me, theres no need for it. However apprently her dad recieved a text message about LO, saying i lost her (havent seen the text, so dont know if lies or not). As i was at work 8-8 i never responded until i finished and i got so much abuse over the phone for not responding straught away or answering her calls.
Am i doing something wrkng here? I feel like everything is my fault in the situation.
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Jade27xx · 23/04/2017 12:02
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