I cannot believe this is my reality right now.
Trying to keep it as short as possible, I have two children, 7yob and 4yog. I separated from their dad about a year ago..
So after disappearing since start of January, he got back in touch 2 weeks ago and had them last Saturday and yesterday. He then text me saying he needed to talk to me because he respects me.
So when dropping them off yesterday he had a quiet word with me saying he's done some stupid stuff and he was drug tested at work, and he knows by next week he won't have a job as it will come back positive. He said he's been doing cocaine .
I cannot get over it, I'm disgusted. It took me ages to get off to sleep last night due to overthinking every possible scenario. I spoke with all my family today, and they agree with my thoughts on not letting him see them. What kind of mother would I be if I sent my defenceless children with that?! Not a good one.. but I'm actually that disgusted I don't think I could ever trust him again tbh, he changed so much after our 2nd child was born. Since separating he's been childish, trying to annoy me with new girlfriends etc., missing sooo many days when he was supposed to see them, disappearing for weeks always. He's just overall not a good person anymore, and now this?! Tbh I don't want my babies growing up with that influence. Wwyd?
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Selina1113 · 16/04/2017 19:11
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