I have just had a baby girl via section the father and I haven't seen eachother since I was 35 weeks pregnant when she was born I had demands to let him see her bearing in mind I've just got out of threatre I let him of course as it's her dad he stayed for a while then left I then gets a text saying I want to see her again so I said ok pop up in the morning before I go home he then texted bk with demands of seeing her when I get home I said I've just had her and haven't thought about it but of course u r her dad u will see here he the tells me who can go near her who can't I told him he has no rights in telling me who I let in my house etc. He then turns nasty and had ago I told him until he can act like an adult for our daughter then not to bother contacting he said u won't get no money from me and I shall take u to court it's really depressing me as I've tried my best I haven't stopped him but now he's blocked me so can't even contact him. She hasn't even been registered yet I don't know what to do it's meant to be a happy time but all I seem to do is sit there and cry any advice do I put her in his name ? Without him there I can't put him on the certificate ??? Do I keep trying or just leave it and get on with it ? This is my 4 th child 1st with him my other kids don't see their dad but I always make sure they don't forget him and when he contacts I let them talk to him as I believe it's their chose but cause she is so tiny 5 days old I don't know what to do
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