Hi all, just after some words of encouragement really.
4 weeks ago my husband told me he doesn't love me anymore and despite me saying I'll change my ways he has said that he can't go back. He's not a bad person at all and a great Dad (makes this so much worse!) He says that over the years my nagging and lack of affection hasn't made him feel good about himself. He says that he's tried for years and has now given up. We have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I'm devastated although better than I was 4 weeks ago. I have never realised the severity of
Our problems until now (this frustrates him) and now I realise it's as if there is no hope. He hasn't left the home yet as he says he wants to make baby steps to ensure he doesn't make a huge mistake but at the same time his words and actions show that he has checked out. Part of me wishes I could just tell him to leave but whilst there's a tiny bit of hope I can't do that. Whilst I accept my wrong doing over the years I also get angry sometimes at the thought of him giving up when our youngest is just 1 - he says he can't stay being unhappy (I get that) but surely another year wouldn't hurt, it's not as if I'm abusive. I don't want my children from a broken home, I want the chance to exhaust all avenues before giving up. TIA X
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user1490222785 · 22/03/2017 23:05
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