Hi everyone, I have twins 13yo. Since divorcing their dad 8 years ago, they have always spent equal time with me and their dad. DC now wants to be with me more, which I would love, but she is worried how her dad would react to this. I am particularly concerned how her twin brother would feel, as he is happy with the arrangements the way they are. ExH can be difficult and combative at the best of times. Any ideas on how I could handle this situation? Any advice very gratefully received.