MrsOtisRegrets
My DD is different now 18yrs in love with a bf 23yrs Parisian. I've handled all teenage tantrums well previously put this time I am running out of advise on getting her to be more responsible.
I am quite scared actually to get 'in the way of love' but I am shaking her up here and there and esp. in terms of the intimacy part blush I feel my advice is completely useless (she is more at risk for being a girl, uni studies may suffer plus std's etc).
I did said to her I do not mind this guy coming to UK to to see her (since they met here at the festival anyway)! Bf will do this bit if he really loves her; and he did but now she somehow feels she has to constantly go now x3 since Dec) - my concern is she is in 1st yr Uni but travelling to EU often now - something we can't really afford. It is difficult for me e.g to see her waste the money she could use on learning to drive.
I've shown my disagreement esp about the *travel and I took her passport away yesterday for which she begged and cried so much: I gave pp back today but I told her I 'may' call home office so she shouldn't travel. I've offered to pay all her losses this time only but said thickly that her travelling away to see a boyfriend is out of discussion, AIBU?
*She has already arranged to travel again and seriously I can't think of a way to handle this rather than cancelling her passport but I am not sure to go with it.
Is there any advice you can give me or AIBU or how can I handle this? Please help!! I know 18yrs have rights as adult but tbh I feel my DD isn't being sensible this time, sadly she have more at stake to loose than her bf.
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18yr Daughter in love and travelling to see boyfriend. IABU to be prudent?
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MrsOtisRegrets · 17/02/2017 22:35
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