I left ExH five years ago when our DS was 2. He (ExH) had an addiction that I had helped him try to address for the previous two years but I couldn't get him to stop and it was really affecting our lives to the point where my love and trust in him completely disintegrated. I moved to be back nearer my parents, for their support, an hours commute away so nothing to major and contact would/has often happens in between.
Since then ExH has been in and out of DS' life. He will go for months at a time without contact. It's really affecting DS and his relationships at school. He becomes very sensitive during the times when his Dad isn't around. He takes the slightest hint of rejection really badly along with the little arguments that kids his age generally have. Its only been about 6 weeks this time but the behaviours and insecurities are worse than ever. He's just so sad at the moment.
His Dad is now showing signs of wanting to come back on the scene... maintenance being paid, the odd text message... and I don't know what to do. I have made him aware of how his disappearances affect his Son in the past... I can't watch DS go through this time and time again. What can I do?
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bettycat81 · 08/02/2017 14:37
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