Cms taking over our CSA case tomorrow. I need a paper trail of amount due (which is legally enforceable) to prove income to my mortgage lender. Have asked CMS to do assessment for new case then we go to current arrangement of ex transferring money each month.
Ex phoned 3 weeks ago to demand I halt the case or he's going to quit his job. 'Best he can afford' is a rise of £5 a week then a list of expenses - new car to buy, petrol, bills, mortgage, council tax etc etc. He already can't afford to see his kids apparently, has seen them 7 times in 3 years. We live 150 miles apart but I've dropped them to his door for half of the journeys where we agreed to meet half way. Told me that if the CMS figure is more than £5 higher (last CSA assessment in 2013) he's going to quit his job and get one in his village that pays half as much as he earns now.
So tomorrow they're going to push that magic button that links him to HMRC to figure out what he should be paying based on his salary. I reckon he's had a promotion that he hasn't admitted hence the demand to halt the case. On the same salary as he was on the figure should be exactly the same.
He's only ever been with the same company, is unqualified and wouldn't do well at interview unless he knew the boss or it was a NMW job.
Hand hold please, I'm dreading the fall-out from this but standing my ground. He hates that this is out of his control, has used his contact with the kids to beat me with for the last 5+ years
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StrongerThanIThought76 · 18/01/2017 20:34
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