About a year ago my ex returned DS with a really wonky fringe and I asked if he'd cut his hair. He said no and that he'd never do that because my brothers a hairdresser. I think he even went as far as to promise he wouldn't. I thanked him and said I really appreciated it because it meant a lot. I didn't think more of it and assumed my son may have been the culprit for the wonky fringe. A month later at the handuver DS was returned with a new hair style and cut. I was really upset, we'd spoken about my brother cutting it and also he made a promise. I left it there but for the last year he's continued to get DS hair cut. I've just ignored it and let it slide. He knows it upsets me but there's little I can do.
However, he has returned yet again with a very short hair cut. In no way did it need cutting and he knew we had a family wedding coming up for which I wouldn't have got it cut myself in a style I liked.
I'm really cross with myself because instead of ignoring it like normal I reacted, which my ex thrives on. I also got cross with my ex in front of my son, which I'm feeling incredibly guilty about. I've explained to DS that I was cross with him and that he looks gorgeous but I was cross with Daddy for not letting me know first.
Had been doing so well recently on 'not sweating the small stuff'. Now I'm just a ball of guilt!
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Hair cut - feeling cross with myself
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AKP79 · 30/10/2016 23:21
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