Ds is 3 and hasn't seen or had any contact with his father since he was 3 months old. A few days ago I got a message from his dad asking if he could see him, I don't like idea but I've agreed. He lives over 100 miles from us so I suggested using facetime before they meet in person. Any advice on how to go about it? Should I tell DS its his dad? Should I make sure they facetime regularly before I allow them to meet? I'm so concerned about this, I'm sure the interest will fizzle out after a while but I know I need to give it a chance for DS, I really don't know what to do or how to go about all this. TIA
I haven't asked but I'm guessing it's because his girlfriend recently ended their relationship and he's moved away from his other young child and needs something to keep him occupied. Or he wanted me to say that he couldn't see DS so he had a sob story (with texts as proof) to try and make people feel sorry for him s. I think the latter is the most likely. This is the only chance he's getting, if he lets DS down this time he won't be seeing him until DS is old enough to make his own decisions.