Just a bit of advice.
I'm 21 and just recently found out I'm pregnant. This did come as a huge shock as I was on the pill and never missed one. My now Ex partner (38) has decided he can't got through with this and wants us to break up.
So he's 38 got 3 kids 14,13, 2
I understand him not wanting another child but months previous he was saying how we should have a baby and it would be the best thing to happen to him, I however wasn't prepared to take on that responsibility. We continued to be sexually active and I continued to take the pill. Yet here I am pregnant and single.
The night I found out my partner had his daughter (agreed visits) so instead of worrying him with this I decided to wait until he dropped her off to tell him the news.
Once he found out he immediately made it clear he wants no more kids and I was in this alone. Countless times he's tried to push me into having an abortion and I cannot do that to me or my baby.
Anyway long story short,
After pushing for an abortion, telling me it will wreck his and his children's lives and he can't do it I feel uncomfortable with the fact my baby will have to be a part of his life. How can I live knowing my child is fathered by someone who never really wanted them?
Does he have rights if he's not on the birth certificate and makes no effort to turn up to appointments even after being informed?
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user1476058990 · 10/10/2016 01:31
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