My husband and I have recently separated we have one DC together. I've found out today from a mutual friend he's gone abroad on holiday and hasn't told me.
I feel really disrecpted as a co-parent that he didn't do me the courtsey of letting me know he's leaving the country. I'm not upset he's gone away, I'm just saddened at the realisation he doesn't consider our DC when he's not having contact. My main concern is, what if something happened to me while DC was at school and they contacted Dad to arrange an emergency collection and he wasn't in the bloody country! I don't have any other emegerncy contacts listed as we don't live near my family.
He doesn't know I know he's away, and I'm not sure how to play it. I want him to know I know and that I don't think it's acceptable way to behave.
What's your advice - should I play it cool, or give him both barrels?
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Planter22 · 07/10/2016 21:52
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